Hopeless

I wan to live my life as what I wanted for myself. Hopefully I won’t bother about other ppl life or what they are doing already. Am going to jus concentrate on my own things now on. I’ve got so many things to do too. I’m going to look forward for my own future, looking for my own happiness. If good things come my way I will take it. Some ppl, whatever u say to them its jus wasting your time & effect. No point. its not like you never say this to them, say till saliva DRIED also like that. anyway, it's up to them if they want to or not.

I jus can’t tolerate ppl who are growing older BUT they still do not know how to think of what they want for their future. They still wan to be a slacker doing things which a kid is doing. They don’t want to plan for the future BUT they wan ppl to accept what they are doing, which of cause its unacceptable. They do talk about what they want for the future BUT they never SHOW. So what’s the point in TALKING? Can’t do it, DON’T say out. Always remember ACTION SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS.

They claim they can’t find a job but have they really try looking for it?? Just don’t see them trying their very best but they can just tell you that its so hard to find a job now especially because of the recession period which is an excurse. If you did try HARD but still can’t find a job then it’s acceptable but the thing is that they don’t try at all. Just looking for shortcut to earn money which is not even enough to survive. They just never learn their lesson one after another.

They will try HARD when you start to nag at them about it but if u just stop nagging they will SLACK again. So best thing to do, GIVE UP. If they wan to do something they will, no point nagging at them about it. So I feel that this kind of ppl they can’t think of what they want for themselves or even plan for the future. Being with this type of ppl we will only suffer not them as to them they live day by day. Got money they spent, no money don’t spent, that simple. Sometimes I simply do not understand why they are like that. Really tired talking to them, can’t they just simply GROW UP?

Why when some guys when they have money they just spent it like water flowing down the drain, but when comes to them being broke, they don’t have a choice but to stuck themselves at home. Don’t they know what is the meaning of saving up for the future or just in case of raining days?? Worst thing is that some of them just take loan like nobody business & once they lose their job which by default they never did work there for long term too. Then from the start they should have plan their finance to see IF they are able to pay off the loan or not. Just because they just started working does not mean that they can jus take a loan THINKING that they are able to pay off. Have to work out the finance too

That’s why I feel that if u wan to look for someone, look for someone who are stable, know how to think not someone who know how to tell ppl logics but don’t use it on themselves not mature as what you think they are.

Heard this fm a friend “I hate men who don’t plan for the future. Feel no sense of security” this is VERY TRUE. How can u be with a man who don’t do planning & keep slacking or worst find shortcut to earn money??

No wonder I know why some older guys tense to look for younger women, nah its not women but GIRLS, because they don’t think about all this we are thinking, they only want to enjoy the moment being together that’s all, never even think what the future will look like for them.